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Will
My Doubts and Fears Affect My
Child?
© Copyright 2004 Rebecca Hanson
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"Will
my doubts and fears affect my
child?" This father is concerned
about his son, a high school athlete with a vision
of playing professional sports. The father's fear
is that his son won't be accepted into the 'right'
college to be scouted by the professionals. He
wanted to know:
How
does your vibration, as a parent, affect your
children?
Can
your negative or low frequency vibration create
resistance or prevent your child from attracting
his or her desire?
How
much influence do you have over your child's
ability to attract something they desire?
What
would you tell this father?
My
answer was simple: "Your vibration
affects your child to the degree that he allows
it."
Now,
you might think that the older the child, the
stronger his or her vibration will be--that the
parent's vibration would be less influential as the
child matures. However, that is not necessarily
so.
Another
client told me about a camping trip that her family
took last summer. Picture this: mother, father and
7 year old Janice are driving in the car, through a
national forest, looking for a place to set up
camp. Father is discouraged and making comments
like, "We're not going to get a place to camp."
Every time he said that, little Janice said, to
herself, "We ARE going to get a camping spot."
This went on for a couple of hours, as the family
drove from one campsite to the next looking for an
opening. Finally, Janice spoke up, rather
defiantly: "Yes we ARE going to get
a camping place. I just know it!" And at the very
next campsite, there was a vacant site right close
to the gate. My client said she was impressed with
her daughter's ability to maintain her high
vibration of expectancy, while a parent was
vibrating such negativity.
I
have three (almost four) grandchildren. One little
fellow has displayed a true stubborn streak since
he was a toddler. While his independence and
self-determination are sometimes difficult to live
with, I realize that he is exercising his right to
not let other people set his vibration...oh,
no! He has his mind made up and he's going to have
his way--always! Could it be that he knows
something that my generation is just
learning? Maintain your own
vibration!
Not
all children have developed the ability to maintain
a positive vibration when their parent is vibrating
fear or doubt. I was able to help the father, who
recognized his own negative vibration, create a
Focus Wheel. Together we came up with six or seven
statements which allowed him to release his fears
and raise his vibrational frequency. Statements
like, "Even though most sports professionals are
scouted at certain Universities, it
IS possible to be scouted
elsewhere." "My son has the ability to
attract his desire." "The Universe knows the BEST
way to bring about the fulfillment of my son's
desire."
Perhaps
you realize that your child, your partner or a
friend is letting your vibration affect theirs and
you'd like to have a more uplifting influence. Here
are a couple of suggestions:
1.
Learn about the Focus Wheel. Here are the
instructions,
a sample
Focus Wheel
and a blank
Focus Wheel
that you can begin using today.
2.
Order the Law
of Attraction Tools for Business
4-CD Series.
Each CD focuses on a different Law of Attraction
Tool and you can apply it to any aspect of your
life or business. One CD is dedicated to the
Focus Wheel--you'll really find it helpful to
listen to Rebecca coach several students on
creating a Focus Wheel to replace doubt and fear
with believing, and faith in what they already KNOW
to be true.
Here's
the link to order this CD set: http://www.LawOfAttractionResources.com
Do
you have a story that demonstrates how your
vibration influenced a family member? Or
how they stayed true to their desire until their
desire came true? Email
Rebecca
with your story and you may read it here in the
Museletter!
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