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Relationships
by Rebecca Hanson
© 2003-2005 All rights reserved. Please ask permission to reproduce: rebecca@youcanhaveitall.com
I've been musing on a topic of great importance lately, RELATIONSHIPS. My thoughts have been along these lines: If I'm in the process of Deliberately Attracting more of what I want, how can I maintain good relationships with people who may not appreciate or want what I want?

How can I have what I want while at the same time allow the other person to have what they want? Especially if what we each desire something different?

HARMONY

One of the primary intentions of both parties in a GOOD relationship must be HARMONY. While I'm living alone, I don't have to be too concerned about how my choices will affect another person, but when I am sharing space with someone or in a relationship of any kind, then I'm aware that my decisions may have an affect on the other person.

So, how can I get what I want while allowing the other person to have what they want?

Through CLEAR COMMUNICATION. Most disagreements come about NOT by deliberately disagreeing, but by being in DEFAULT mode and not understanding what the other person is wanting.

Here are 5 steps to CLEAR COMMUNICATION which will maintain the intention of HARMONY:

1. Identify your desire: Become crystal clear about what you want and why you want it.

2. Effectively communicate your desire and intention to the other person.

3. Communicate segment by segment. Take time to be sure you are fully communicating and fully understood.

4. Understand your Inner Guidance system and rely upon it to tell you if you are truly creating in the direction of your intention resulting in HARMONY or if what you are communicating is causing dis-HARMONY.

5. Remain in ALLOWING mode after making your desire known. If my over-riding intention is to have HARMONY between us, then I will ALLOW the Universe to orchestrate the circumstances so that we can both receive the desire of our heart and maintain our enjoyment of one another. Relax. Chill out. Remain joyful!

One 'trap' I've noticed is that I often think I already know how a person is going to respond to my communication--and according to Law of Attraction, if I think they are going to react strongly, they most likely will.

The trick is to BELIEVE that the Universe wants to give me the desire of my heart AND maintain HARMONY in my relationships. How? Ah, that's the fun part. The Universe has an infinite number of ways to achieve this feat...that's half the fun...wondering and watching how it will work out.

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The Universal Law of Attraction states: We become a magnet for what ever we put our focus on--whether wanted or unwanted.	Back to Article Index Relationships by Rebecca Hanson © 2003-2005 All rights reserved. Please ask permission to reproduce: rebecca@youcanhaveitall.com I've been musing on a topic of great importance lately, RELATIONSHIPS. My thoughts have been along these lines: If I'm in the process of Deliberately Attracting more of what I want, how can I maintain good relationships with people who may not appreciate or want what I want? How can I have what I want while at the same time allow the other person to have what they want? Especially if what we each desire something different? HARMONY One of the primary intentions of both parties in a GOOD relationship must be HARMONY. While I'm living alone, I don't have to be too concerned about how my choices will affect another person, but when I am sharing space with someone or in a relationship of any kind, then I'm aware that my decisions may have an affect on the other person. So, how can I get what I want while allowing the other person to have what they want? Through CLEAR COMMUNICATION. Most disagreements come about NOT by deliberately disagreeing, but by being in DEFAULT mode and not understanding what the other person is wanting. Here are 5 steps to CLEAR COMMUNICATION which will maintain the intention of HARMONY: 1. Identify your desire: Become crystal clear about what you want and why you want it. 2. Effectively communicate your desire and intention to the other person. 3. Communicate segment by segment. Take time to be sure you are fully communicating and fully understood. 4. Understand your Inner Guidance system and rely upon it to tell you if you are truly creating in the direction of your intention resulting in HARMONY or if what you are communicating is causing dis-HARMONY. 5. Remain in ALLOWING mode after making your desire known. If my over-riding intention is to have HARMONY between us, then I will ALLOW the Universe to orchestrate the circumstances so that we can both receive the desire of our heart and maintain our enjoyment of one another. Relax. Chill out. Remain joyful! One 'trap' I've noticed is that I often think I already know how a person is going to respond to my communication--and according to Law of Attraction, if I think they are going to react strongly, they most likely will. The trick is to BELIEVE that the Universe wants to give me the desire of my heart AND maintain HARMONY in my relationships. How? Ah, that's the fun part. The Universe has an infinite number of ways to achieve this feat...that's half the fun...wondering and watching how it will work out. Do you have a secret dream, desire or hope? Contact Rebecca to learn how YOU can live your dream! Back to Article Index Please notify Rebecca if you wish to reproduce this article. Thanks!
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